Norway’s false own image.

This false image was often accepted as a norm in the media, online blogs and political debates, until 22th July, in any case. I have experienced how even the most liberal Norwegians get upset when confronted with facts and examples about how Norway is not a multicultural society, but a society where immigrants are ranked second-class. This hate mentality, group thinking and xenophobia worries many immigrants who have grown up in multicultural societies elsewhere in the world, including myself. Many like me have accepted Norway with her weaknesses and strengths and now call her home. Norwegians and immigrants are discussed as two separate groups in Norway, but in a multicultural society this division and debate would be less of an issue.

Professor Paul Stephens at the University of Stavanger has recently described the modern British society as a “salad bowl”, similar to the Canadian and Australian versions of multiculturalism. These models are quite different than the melting pot model preferred by some Norwegians which has been used in European Continent countries, such as Germany, without success. Instead of an exciting salad, Germany has ended up with a society that has integration problems with her immigrants.

It is perhaps not too hard to see what is going wrong in Norway. The invading Germans that built “Festung Norwegen” (Fortress Norway) during World War II developed a problem; namely an “Übermensch” mentality. They believed that they were a better race, with higher standards and values. Whilst the version of this mentality experienced by us immigrants in Norway is, admittedly, mild, Stephens calls this “the Norwegian standard”.

Building a multicultural nation in Norway is difficult when some Norwegians see themselves as inhabiting a society with higher standards than the rest of the world. Put simply, how are we going to create a bowl of salad when the lettuce prefers not to mix with the cherry tomatoes, the feta cheese, olives and the pomegranates?

I have seen Norway becoming an ostrich nation where own values, ways of thinking, bureaucracy and traditions are perceived to be the best in the world, regardless of what really is going on in the country or overseas. There exists a

completely different Norway, disconnected from higher standards, where an African female is assumed to be a prostitute, rather than an engineer; where a Muslim is seen as a terrorist or a wife beater, not an accountant. Where Norwegians with an immigrant background are still called “3rd generation immigrants”, whereas their parents´ international food store is termed “immigrant shop” (innvandrerbutikk) in Norwegian

And in this “alternative” Norway, a family reunification visa application to the Directorate of Immigration (Utlendingsdirektoratet/UDI) results in the throwing of qualified, educated immigrants into society without an ID number and out of work, meaning they have to live in limbo for months. Where the very same qualified and educated immigrants have problems getting a job in their own field, having to settle with delivering newspapers at 3 am in the morning, or take a job at the mink farm, which no Norwegian would take.

Paul Stephens claims that, “those of us with non-western background, especially with dark skin or with a “gipsy” background, can never become a “real Norwegian” because Norwegian blood is thicker than a Norwegian passport”. Correct, but one does not necessarily need to have darker skin or Roma heritage to be refused the golden status. Entry into the “übermensch” club is “verboten” if one dares to criticise Norway’s false view about herself.

In a “multicultural” Norway, we need a state that welcomes its immigrants with as much enthusiasm and open arms as she does her oil income, a country where immigrants can retain their citizenship like in Canada, Australia and the UK, for example. We need a country that respects not only ethnicity or religion, but previous national identity too. We need a country where there is neither a big debate about, nor a requirement for who is allowed to call themselves a Norwegian. We need a Norway that seeks dedication and loyalty by showing respect for ethnic religion, tradition and language.

A ‘multicultural’ Norway needs a state that is secular and properly equipped with a modern regulatory framework, and institutions that do not just regulate immigration, but plan the nation’s future with it if this is to happen. Today’s cumbersome and outdated framework is direly in need of reform.

We do not become multicultural by reading that people from 170 countries live in Stavanger, nor do we become more tolerant by celebrating Norway as we do nowadays. We indeed live in a country where people believe the name “Fremskritt”(Progress), is the name of a political party, rather than a process when a society thinks critically about itself and finds ways of improving.

To be multicultural requires openness, magnanimity and a will to change. Nevertheless, it is difficult to see how this openness, magnanimity, and will to change will arise now, after 22 July, if these did not exist before.

Norway inhabitants now five million.

The Norwegian population has almost certainly now reached the five million mark, according to researchers.

t is not known for definite who the fifth millionth inhabitant is; it could either be a newborn baby or an immigrant.

“Norway has no data or ability to say who this person might be. The exact date of births, deaths, immigration and emigration is not known either before or afterwards,” senior Statistics Norway (SSB)researcher Helge Brunborg told NRK.

This person could even be a newborn called Karoline who was born unexpectedly at home at just after midnight Monday.

According to Helge Brunborg even if the exact person were known, privacy would not allow their name to be revealed, and SSB will not be able to give an exact answer before sometime in May.

Norway’s population has increased quickly over the last five years with 65,000 people arriving last year, the largest growth since 1920.

Research also suggests that the population will reach the six-million mark by 2028 due to life expectancy and immigration, with immigrants accounting for half of Oslo’s inhabitants within the next 30 years.

Norway explains oil system to committee.

A director of the Norwegian Ministry of Oil & Energy has said good resource management is the key to success.

Elkem to increase polysilicon production in Norway.

On March 17th, 2012 Elkem Solar (Oslo, Norway) announced plans to increase to full production the output of its polysilicon production facility in Kristiansand, Norway.

Elkem had reduced the output of solar grade silicon at the facility in late 2011, including temporarily laying off 120 of 275 employees. However, the company states that in recent weeks it has experienced an increase in orders.

“During the production slowdown period, Elkem Solar has invested heavily in improving its competitive edge by increasing capacity and by carrying out various improvement projects,” stated Elkem Solar Senior VP Trond Sæterstad. “We are now in an even stronger competitive position than we were six months ago.”

Fall in polysilicon prices affects global industry

Polysilicon spot prices fell sharply towards the end of 2011, with GTM Research (Boston, Massachusetts, U.S.) estimating that average prices had fallen below USD 30 per kilogram in December 2011.

Initially this had little effect on the larger polysilicon producers, as a majority of polysilicon sales by volume are through long-term contracts. However, due to the sustained nature of the decline, customers have canceled some long-term contracts with various suppliers.

Smart oil and gas management: Norway’s lessons for Canada

Norway’s oil and gas industry revenues have provided the country with a $550 billion pension fund. Why isn’t Canada following their lead?

Problems surrounding Canada’s oil and gas industry have been routinely discussed by environmental organizations, with the ongoing debate over the proposed Enbridge Northern Gateway pipeline. But where are the solutions to be found?

When it comes to managing the oil and gas industries, some countries have a lot to teach our government. Norway, for example, has a thriving oil economy and has much in common with Canada. Both are Arctic countries, and both have emerged as major energy producers with abundant natural resources.

But there’s an important difference between the two northern nations: Norway’s doing resource management right.

With a world-class pension fund delivered by oil and gas revenues, the Scandinavians have mastered the balance between industry and national interests. Now as debates heat up over the oil sands and the economy, critics are calling on the Canadian government to learn from Norway’s success story.

Norway’s oil boom and smart energy strategy

Norway’s energy boom started in the late 1960s when exploration revealed huge offshore oil and gas deposits in the continental shelf. Since then, the nation has become known around the world for its bold energy strategy and policies—including high taxation rates for oil companies and permits that regulate the volume of extraction.

Through the State’s Direct Financial Interest (SDFI) arrangement, the Norwegian State participates directly in the petroleum sector as an investor, and reaps all the associated rewards. According to the Ministry of Petroleum and Energy website, “the net cash flow resulting from the SDFI portfolio constitutes a predictable, long term and secure revenue to the Norwegian State.”

With a population of just five million, the small Scandinavian country is now the second largest gas exporter and the seventh largest oil exporter globally. The government owns significant stakes in the international oil giant, Statoil, in addition to the state-owned company Petoro. Most importantly, the revenues generated by state involvement in oil and gas have allowed the country to not only eliminate its debt but also to create an impressive $550 billion government pension fund—one of the biggest in the world.

During a lecture last November at the University of Ottawa, Norwegian Minister of Petroleum and Energy Ola Borten Moe told Canadians how this arrangement has created a reputable balance between resource development, the national economy and the environment.

“The right to any subsea deposit of oil and gas is vested in the state. This is crucial when you want to manage the resources to the benefit of the people,” said Borten Moe.

“We had the resources under the seabed. The companies contributed with their skills and knowledge, both to discover fields and produce them. At the same time, they were obliged to help us build national experience.”

While they invited the international oil industry to take the lead in development, the Ministry says the state has maintained a healthy relationship with industry stakeholders: the oil companies are seen as “helpers” in harnessing the country’s natural resources, but ultimately, the oil belongs to the nation and to citizens.

Despite 40 years of intensive production, the country has still got about 60 per cent of their resources left. And separating resource revenues from the rest of the economy has also helped Norway avoid the so-called “Dutch Disease”, said to occur when an oil-based economy raises the currency and displaces a crucial manufacturing sector.

Norway custody row: Father denies rift with wife, but govt steps back.

An NRI father, caught in a custody battle with Norway authorities, has rubbished reports that he plans to divorce his wife.

Meanwhile, the government has put on hold the visit of a senior External Affairs Ministry official to Norway in connection with the child custody case amid reports there were differences between the parents.

“The government has tried its best to bring the children home so that they have a future in the country. But a new situation has developed… we cannot interfere. The visit of a Joint Secretary (to Norway) has been postponed,” Minister of State for External Affairs Preneet Kaur told reporters outside Parliament House.

She said the government would look into the situation before taking the next step. Anurup Bhattacharya, father of the two children — Abhigyan, 3, and Aishwarya, 1 — has reportedly filed for legal separation from his wife Sagarika. He has alleged that he was being repeatedly beaten by his wife. It is also reported that the uncle – the father’s brother – who has got custody of the child has refused to take responsibility now.

The children are in the care of Norway’s Child Welfare Services. Two MEA officials were scheduled to hear the custody hearing of the children on March 23 in Stavanger.

Norway Unemployment Fell to 3.2% in January as Krone Gained.

Norway’s unemployment rate fell in the January quarter as the strengthening krone weighed on exporters.

The country’s jobless rate fell to 3.2 percent from 3.3 percent in the December quarter, Oslo-based Statistics Norway said today. The median forecast of nine economists in a survey was for 3.3 percent.

Norway, Europe’s second-largest gas exporter, has withstood the region’s debt crisis as higher petroleum prices spur record investments this year in offshore oil and gas fields.

The central bank cut its benchmark interest rate for a second consecutive meeting last week to 1.5 percent in an effort to check gains in the krone that are hurting exporters. The krone jumped to a nine-year high against the euro this month.

Companies such as Renewable Energy Corp. ASA (REC), a maker of solar energy components, have announced job cuts as the strong currency hurts competitiveness and demand wanes from debt- burdened Europe.

Mind the Crown Jewels, Charles! Future King wields an axe as he hones his wood-chopping skills on Scandinavian tour.

The Prince of Wales and the Duchess of Cornwall brushed up on their outdoor skills today as they toured some of Norway’s highlights on the second day of their Scandinavian tour.

Accompanied by Queen Sonja of Norway, the pair braved rain and cold weather for the trip, during which they spent some time with school children at a local outdoor nursery and visited Bryggen, a World Cultural Heritage site on the banks of the fjords. At the quayside, Prince Charleswasted no time in showing off his wood-chopping skills, grabbing a hatchet and splitting a log in two.

For Camilla’s lesson in skills of the great outdoors, she was taught the art of wood whittling.Camilla looked chic in a cape-style coat while Norway’s Queen opted for a bright yellow rain hat for the visit to the nursery.The forest environment provides an idyllic site and space for a playground where the children can experience a range of outdoor activities throughout the year and in all kinds of weather.

The Duchess has expressed interest in learning more about the health and educational benefits of such an approach.Charles and Camilla also went to the Haakonshallen, a medieval hall Charles previously visited in 1969 with the Queen.

A Clarence House spokeswoman said the Prince had specifically requested he visit the hall, where a cultural performance was held for the royal visitors, because of his earlier trip there.

Joined by the Queen and King of Norway, Charles and Camilla took a walking tour of the historic quayside buildings of Bryggen, a Unesco world heritage site, during the day.

The Prince told King Harald and guests at a state dinner held in Oslo last night how much he was looking forward to the visit.He said: ‘I am delighted that HMS Liverpool is deployed here for Exercise Cold Response and that Your Majesty and I will be visiting her tomorrow.’

The royals are set to return to Oslo, where they carried out the first of their engagements on their eight-day tour of Scandinavia, in the evening.After the Prince of Wales and Camilla’s three-day tour in Norway, which includes a visit to the western city of Bergen, they are scheduled to travel to Sweden and Denmark.It is the couple’s first joint visit to Scandinavia.

UPDATE 1-REC closes Norway plant permanently.

* Glomfjord 300 MW plant had been running at 50 pct since Dec. 1

* Heroeya plant still being monitored

* Shares rise 3.1 pct

OSLO, March 21 (Reuters) – Struggling solar firm Renewable Energy Corporation will permanently close its Glomfjord plant in Norway, with the loss of 200 jobs, as it aims to cut unit costs in response to falling wafer prices, sending its shares higher.

The plant, located in Northern Norway, can produce 300 megawatts of monocrystalline wafers – thin slices of semiconductor material used to make solar panels – per year and had been running at half speed since Dec. 1.

Europe’s solar companies are facing a cut in government solar subsidies, falling prices and rising production from China causing a supply glut.REC said on Wednesday the closure would lead to some costs even after it wrote down the plant’s fixed assets to zero last year.

“We still have costs related to staff layoffs and also in relation to supply agreements, long-term commitments and so on, that would be a cost that we need to make provisions for,” said REC spokesman Mikkel Toerud.He said the firm would come back to the details of these costs in the first-quarter earnings report, due on April 25.

Production at the company’s Heroeya wafer plant in southern Norway with an installed capacity of about 650 megawatts is reduced by 60 percent, and REC is still monitoring the cost development at this site, Toerud said.

“That plant is still operating, and we of course continue to focus on cost reduction and to improve operations at this facility,” he said.

“The situation for the plant is still challenging, and we will continue to monitor the profitability for this plant over the coming months …. of course the prices are very depressed in this market.”Shares in REC rose 3.1 percent at 0855 GMT, outperforming a 0.7 percent rise in the Oslo benchmark index. (Reporting by Victoria Klesty; Editing by Helen Massy-Beresford)

Solheim told to leave Norway government.

The Norwegian Minister for International Development and Environment, Mr Erik Solheim, who also handles the country’s peace facilitations in different parts of the world, has been asked to leave the government by the leadership of his Socialist Left (SV) Party in the coalition, according to media reports on Wednesday. He has been told to give way for younger talents from his party. The immediate reaction of the minister was strong disagreement with the decision of his party, but he refrained from commenting on his exit before an official announcement by his party. Mr Solheim is widely seen as Norway’s main player in the failed peace process in the island of Sri Lanka.

Mr Solheim is a senior leader of the SV party with a 30-year service record. He has been leading the party from 1987 to 1997.

Solheim got into peace brokering in the island of Sri Lanka by chance, when he went to Colombo on a vacation to plan writing his autobiography, after stepping down from his party leader position in 1997.
In Colombo, he met Arne Fjørtoft, a former leader of the Norwegian Left party, who also had chosen Sri Lanka as his destination after he had to step down from the Left party as its leader.
Mr Fjørtoft, running his NGO based in Colombo, had convinced Mr Solheim to get into Sri Lanka peace process. Fjørtoft had good access to the then SL President, Ms Chandrika Kumaratunga.
In October 2000, Mr Solheim visited Vanni as Special Envoy from Norway and met LTTE Leader Velupillai Pirapaharan.
During his peace career in the island he has earned hard criticism from both the sides of the conflict, the Sinhalese as well as the Tamils.
In the early years of his Sri Lanka engagement, his party was in the opposition in the Norway government, and Mr Solheim was hired as a Special Envoy.
He has been assigned to handle the correspondences with the Tigers, while the ruling party’s State Secretary was formally in charge of the peace negotiations and was taking care of the relationship with the Sri Lankan side. Because of this nature of the division of work, Solheim was either projected or perceived as pro-Tamil by the Sri Lankan establishment and media.
In June 2001, the Sri Lankan government unilaterally decided to curtail the prominence of Mr Solheim. But the strong reaction of the LTTE that Norway yielding to the unilateral move would lead to the movement losing confidence in the peace initiative saved the position of Mr Solheim.
However, LTTE’s confidence in Solheim and Norway was seriously affected in 2003, when the movement started realizing that the so-called Oslo Declaration was a trap. The LTTE leadership was then forced to work in a new direction by formulating ISGA proposals.
A reputed journalist who had witnessed the conflict in the island commented recently that despite his ‘failures’ and ‘successes’ Mr Solheim has a deep sense of attachment to the island and its people.
Last year, the main criticism of Norway’s evaluation report on the failed peace process was about the way the process had been steered: not telling the world the truth by quitting the process when it was leading to a crisis and the way the development strategy was handled during the process.
Making his presentation at the release of the report, Mr Solheim came out with several remarks, revealing his as well as India’s role in the peace process.
Speaking at the event, Mr Solheim tried to paint a star-crossed picture, when he said that nobody expected the war to end like that.
But more and more evidences surfacing confirm that what happened was planned genocide – planned for years at some quarters.
Mr Solheim is vested with a noble opportunity to contribute more to justice righteous to the nation of Eezham Tamils and justice universal to humanity, when he has no constrains of the Establishments, is the expectation of Eezham Tamils.

Szemeredi wins Norway $1 million Abel Prize.

Hungarian-born Endre Szemeredi has won the 6 million kroner ($1 million) Abel Prize for his studies in mathematics and contribution to computer sciences.

The mathematics award committee says Szemeredi’s efforts have provided “fundamental contributions to discrete mathematics and theoretical computer science.”

Szemeredi, who is a professor at Rutgers University in New Jersey and the Alfred Renyi Institute of Mathematics in Budapest, Hungary, is the 10th recipient of the prize.

The Abel Prize, founded in 2003 and funded by the Norwegian government, is awarded annually for contributions to mathematical sciences.

Szemeredi will receive the prize at an awards ceremony in the Norwegian capital, Oslo, in May.

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